Attention: What Owns Your Attention Owns Your Life

Last week we discussed death. How deliberately contemplating it can make our lives richer, freer, more peaceful—and more deliberate.

If death asks us “What matters?”, perhaps attention asks us “Does my life reflect what matters?”

In the podcast, I spoke about making time to really sit with the impermanence and fickleness of life—to place our attention on the fact that everything is changing, all the time. But doing that means moving our attention away from other things. We have to create the space to notice in the first place.

Which brings me to this week's question:

What owns your attention owns your life.

If we narrow our focus to look at death, perhaps we also need to narrow our focus to see what is grabbing our attention, again and again, in all the ordinary moments of life.

It seems everyone is competing for our attention more than ever. Advertising. Algorithms. News. AI. Notifications. Other people's ambitions. Our own ambitions. And perhaps the technologies we've built to help us are making those ambitions noisier and more cluttered too.

Are we managing our time, or are we being managed by our attention?

Is attention the gateway to everything else?

Poor habits. Good habits. Fatigue. Zest. Worry. Peace.

What we repeatedly pay attention to becomes our life. We become what we notice, and move further away from what we don't.

Like death, if we don't pay attention to something deliberately and intentionally, we can get lost in the noise.

If we don't become aware of what we're giving our attention to, again and again, what do we become?

What do we lose?

Is attention the gateway to ethics?

To responsibility?

To the good life?

I'm still thinking about it.

What has been earning your attention lately?

Not taking it.

Earning it.

This week's podcast

This Field Note is the beginning of the thought, not the conclusion.

On this week's Sutterfaction, I'll sit with these questions for longer—exploring attention, distraction, technology, ambition, habits and what happens when we become more deliberate about where we place our attention.

Listen to the episode later this week.

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